You've been wanting to have much better work life balance
You've decided to pay more attention to your health and nutritionYou want to be a better mom and employee
You've been desiring more celebration and inspiration in your life
These are all great goals, but here's the reason why they'll never be achieved!
We set up goals assuming that all we need is a good intention and we'll magically get there. More often than not, we all get started and half way through, we end up losing our motivation, create self sabotage or doubt ourselves into stopping short of what it will take.
I want to say that our desires, dreams our goals, they need more than just a good intent.
They need us to commit to them so full heartedly that we understand them fully - inside out. We know what are the self sabotaging thoughts that will make us stuck, we need to know the doubt that will definitely arise, we need to understand the kind of effort and drive it will take, we need to have someone around we can emulate. we need to hang out with people who will energetically drive us forward.
In short, we need to measure the various elements it takes to achieve something that's totally different from where we stand right now. And more often than not, it takes a whole new way of thinking and the replacing of old patterns.
I want to urge you to think of 1-2 of your biggest dreams and desires and think about what are the things it will take for you to bring them into your reality. Enlisting support in different ways, being practical about the timeline and finding ways to emotionally support yourself along the journey are crucial to getting you to realising your dreams!
Have you set yourself up for success or are you allowing yourself to feel like a constant failure on the path to your dreams?